So I went out hanging with my boy and we had another discussion about females. Specifically black females. He knows Im the gentleman type and he told even though women say they want that they don't go after it, they rather be some raggedy ass nigga than to be with a good guy which is true! He was telling me stories of how he would say something low key rude and get a positive response where as one of his friends who is nice gets no attention at all. He's the friend.
Then he showed me this movie called "Diary of a Tired Black Man" which I loved by the way.
The opening in itself was jaw dropping. Like how can these black women disrespect this dude when he is handling his and hers for that matter smh. This was amazing to see opinions for actual smart brothers that had issues with women who suffer the angry black syndrome. Now this movie is a great conversation starter and I just want to give my opinions on some points that was made as "diary entrees"
You Make No Damn Sense!!:
I never understood why women choose bums over good dudes. I've been that guy who has been right there beside a female and helped her through all her issue but I remained as a friend. I don't get it. You say you want this certain kind of guy but you overlook him because you keep him in the brother/friend zone. I knew this one chick who I told me I was guy she wanted in her life as a partner but she kept me in that friendly area and decide to stay with this dude who emotionally breaks her down all the time. Like what the fuck you know what you want and its right there in front of you so take it. When we men try to be good to you we get overlooked cuz we're nice but as soon as one or two niggas do you wrong WE ALL AIN"T SHIT.....
LET US BE US:
I don't really have much to say about this but I thought this was a great point. Why do y'all females let your friends run your relationship, especially when they single and your not. How the hell are you fully going to trust a woman who can't get/keep a man her damn self. It really causes a strain in the relationship when outside foolishness gets into it.
I'M FUCKING TIRED:
This is by far the thing I agree with the most. I hate to argue I tend not to do it because it just kills my mood and its an energy drainer. I don't know but the something in black females that insist on picking fights it could be about anything. Its like some of them like to argue so I end up upsetting the girl I'm dealing with because I refuse to argue. I go through my day with my own problems and I don't want to come home, text you, call you, or whatever and having to deal with mess. If your my girl or my wife I would love to come to you and it be peaceful. I know I'm young but I been through a long relationship where every day was a battle regardless of what I did nothing good came forth. So forgive me if my attitude is not as aggressive as you like it to be. Like the man said I just want peace of mind.
Now there are many other things to talk about but I don't have all night to do it. But if any of y'all wanna give opinions leave in the comment box or reach me some how because I would to discuss some of these issues and hear/read other view points. If anybody wants to watch this movie look it up on youtube it is there in its entirety.
I have to agree wit pretty much all of wat was said in this. I never did understand why if a man leaves a woman he has to b called weak. Its not that he couldnt handle you its jus that stuff wasnt workin out
ReplyDeleteI understand all of the points given. On the topic of what D said that happens both ways with a lot of people. When things don't work out as you may have wanted it to people tend to become bitter and blame others.
ReplyDeleteThe way I see it is these are issues for both genders, male and females. That is why it is necessary to get to know the person that you are dating before you get into a relationship with them. You should be able to see taht some of this may happen.